December 15, 2007
Pauline Kish – an Epitaph
The oldest of sayings goes “When it rains, it pours.” Well, the Kish household has seen more than its share of rain in the past few years, first with the long illness and eventual passing of Bill, then only a year and a half later, with the passing of Pauline. My thoughts are with their kids, Steve and Ruth, as they proceed along this difficult section of life’s long road. May the next stretch bring great joy!
The following was written for a memorial for Pauline Kish that was held on Saturday, June 16th, 2007.
When I think of Pauline Kish, “my other mom”, I think of her strong, loving support of her husband Bill, and her two kids, Ruth and Steve. My earliest memories of her include the many activities revolving around music and the John F. Kennedy High School band. Being that my best friend is her son Steve, I was always included with them. Indeed, Pauline and Bill always made me feel like I was part of the family, and I have many warm memories of our times together. These include band trips to Santa Cruz and Pleasanton, football games at Tak Fudenna field, concerts at JFK theatre, and nights at the Kish house that are too numerous to count.
Over the years, Pauline also instilled her desire for helping others into Steve and Ruth. I’ve always noticed that the Kish family as a whole has always been ready to help family and close friends. And in her hour of need during her treatments and illness, her kids came through in a big way for her. Their care of her is a testament to the way in which she raised them. I’m sure she was so proud of them. I know I am.
And on a very personal note, during a particularly low point in my life after I lost my first wife to cancer, a Christmas card from her expressing her feelings for what I was going through really picked my up. I will never forget that. Pauline made a difference to those that knew her. She sure made a difference in my life. I will always miss her.
And now, after many years of caring for him during his long illness, she has returned to her beloved Bill. I am sure they are happy, wherever they are!
Pauline, my life is better for having known you. Say “Hi” to “Mr. Kish” for me. Have a peaceful journey!
May the road rise up to meet you.
May the wind be always at your back.
May the sun shine warm upon your face,
the rains fall soft upon your fields.
And until we meet again,
may God hold you in the palm of His hand.
Traditional Gaelic Blessing
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